Hello and a warm welcome to my page and my blog. I started this blog in 2017 and the posts have changed quite signficantly over the past years. What started as a Rejection Challenge has become an insight of who I am, what I think and what I believe in. It is full of poetry and thoughts on relationships as well as everyday life. So the name that I originally used (REJECTION CHALLENGE) does not fit anymore but I will leave the name anyway. I never expected to keep this blog alive for so long and am really enjoying my journey more and more. It has become such an essential part of my life.

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I have discovered my love for writing and have even manged to post regularly on a weekly basis. I cannot imagine my life without writing anymore. But let me introduce myself

My name is Tanja Boness, born in 1967, living in a beautiful little village near Munich in Bavaria, Germany with my son  (18).  My daughter (22) goes to university in England. When I started this blog I was often afraid to leave my comfort zone (that is so not comfortable but at least I know it), I was terrified of putting myself out there, afraid of not being good enough strong enough, young enough, smart enough, skilled enough, whatever enough…

iEQ9-AccreditedPrac-logo-darkAnd even if I am currently working as a freelance Consultant and iEQ9 Enneagram Practitioner, Business and Life Coach and so much has changed in my life since I started this project, I still face  many challenges. So even if this began with rejection challenges, there is so much more from my journey of personal development and insights that I would like to share here with you. I hope that perhaps one or the other post will be interesting or even helpful. Thank you for stoping by and reading my blog.

I would love to hear what you think and am always grateful for feedback…